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| Carriages dropped off guests at the bronze gates by using the semi-circular drive-- catalog of sale of Astor Mansion (copyright expired) |
The indomitable Caroline Webster Schermerhorn Astor, the Mrs. Astor, met her match in
1893. After a lengthy feud, her next-door
neighbor and nephew, William Astor, demolished the brownstone mansion erected
by his father, John Jacob Astor III, and began construction on the towering
Waldorf Hotel. It was a brilliant move
intended to show his aunt exactly who had the last word in the family fight.
Caroline Astor held on for a year before The New York Times
reported on November 4, 1894 “The announcement that a huge hotel is projected
for the southwest corner of Fifth Avenue and Thirty-fourth Street has been received
without surprise.” It was not simply
co-existing with a hotel that nudged the 64-year old socialite to move. Society had long since moved northward along
Fifth Avenue towards Central Park. The
Astor mansion was increasingly surrounded by commerce.
Caroline’s son, John, oversaw the project of erecting an
immense double mansion for himself and his mother on Fifth Avenue at the northeast
corner of 65th Street.
Richard Morris Hunt was given the commission to produce the French
Renaissance chateau which would take two years to complete. “Colonel” John Jacob Astor would live in the more
desirable southern half, 840 Fifth Avenue, with its additional windows on 65th
Street; while Caroline Astor would take the northern residence at 841.
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| A postcard depicted the mansion on a pleasantly-quiet Fifth Avenue. |
“An interesting rumor states that Mrs. Astor is to give a
housewarming before the close of this month.
Mrs. Astor’s house, at 841 Fifth Avenue, and that of her son, John Jacob
Astor, at 840 Fifth Avenue, are so built that they can be made into one
house When all the rooms of this great
residence are thrown open, they will offer a greater space for dancing than any
other private house in the city. Even if
Mrs. Astor decides not to give the ball, Col. and Mrs. Astor will give a number
of dinner parties.”
Guests entered through magnificent bronze entrance gates
into a glass-domed entrance hall. From
here they entered, left or right, into the separate homes. As The Times indicated, the entertainment
spaces were designed so they could be joined into a single ballroom or dining
room, for instance. In true Hunt
fashion, the interiors were intended to awe.
The fireplace of the combination ballroom-picture gallery, for instance,
dwarfed the Astor guests. Enormous
carved female figures flanked an inset oval portrait above the mantel. The stained glass skylight was supported by
titanic, muscular telamons.
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Despite her advancing age and questionable health, Caroline
Astor continued her regimented schedule.
According to Eric Homberger in his Mrs.
Astor’s New York, “Each morning after breakfast the day’s meals would be
discussed with the staff, led by Thomas Hade, who had been with her since 1876,
and her longtime companion, Miss Simrock.
Correspondence was attended to.
The day’s other business might be transacted on the telephone.” There were the expected rounds of afternoon
receiving or being received; dinners, musicales, and dances to attend or host.
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| The lavish interiors were, for the most part, in the French style -- photograph from the collection of the Library of Congress |
Among the most anticipated social events of the year was
Caroline’s annual ball. Her ball was
followed, one week to the day each year, by John Jacob Astor’s ball. In reporting on the latter in 1905, The New
York Times remarked “the John Jacob Astor house is a replica of Mrs. William
Astor’s, and the same porte cochere and street entrance serve both
residences. Last night both houses were
thrown into one, as they were a week ago.
There were boxwood trees lining the crimson-carpeted steps leading from
the street to the entrance, and in the large main hall were palms and vases
with cut flowers…After all the guests had arrived a supper was served by Sherry
at small tables placed in the dining room and halls, after which the cotillion
was danced in the beautiful picture gallery and ballroom into which both of the
Astor Houses open."
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| What appeared to be a Brussels tapestry was, in fact, one of a series of finely-executed wall paintings -- catalog of sale of Astor Mansion (copyright expired) |
It was the last of Caroline Astor’s annual balls. In 1906 she suffered what contemporary accounts deemed a major nervous
breakdown. Possibly it was a series of strokes that afflicted the grand dame, instead. The Evening World later said “since
then [she] had discontinued even the large dinners of which she yearly gave
three or four.” It signaled the
beginning of the end of the woman who had ruled Manhattan society for
decades.
In 1907 Caroline Astor shut herself inside the Fifth Avenue
mansion. On October 31, 1908, The Evening
World reported “For more than a year she has received nobody but her physician
and her daughter, Mrs. Wilson. The only
sign of life about her house since April last came from the windows of her
room.”
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There was apparently one exception. Although on bad days her once-sharp mind was clouded and confused, that was not the case when she permitted a rare
interview with the Delineator in October 1908.
The New York Times quoted the article and Mrs. Astor’s thoughts on her
eventual demise.
“I am not vain enough to think New York will not be able to
get along very well without me. Many
women will rise up to take my place. But
I hope my influence will be felt in one thing, and that is in discountenancing
the undignified methods employed by certain New York women to attract a
following.”
Caroline Astor was, no doubt, referring to her arch rivals
Theresa “Tessie” Oelrichs and Marian “Mamie” Fish. Both women were known for their lavish entertainments
which might be termed “theme parties” today.
“They have given entertainment that belonged under a circus
tent rather than in a gentlewoman’s home.
Their sole object is notoriety, a thing that no lady ever seeks, but,
rather, shrinks from.”
Three weeks after the article was published, Caroline Astor
was dead. On October 31, the day after
her death, The Evening World wrote “Mrs. Astor has been sick for over two
years, but death was the result of an old heart trouble, which recurred four
weeks ago…Owing to Mrs. Astor’s advanced age, seventy-eight years, her
relatives have known for some time her sickness would result fatally.”
Jack Astor wasted little time in taking over his mother’s
half of the house. On November 8, one
week after her death, The Sun reported “Mr. and Mrs. John Jacob Astor will now
occupy the entire dwelling at 840 and 842 [sic] Fifth avenue as their town
residence, as this was the arrangement of Mrs. Astor originally. Sliding doors open the halls into one and the
ball room covers the rear of the double dwelling.”
Astor tore down walls, removed the twin staircases and
installed a bronze-domed reception hall.
The library was relocated, and the ballroom was now one gargantuan room—possibly
the largest in New York City. And there
was one other renovation John Jacob Astor would make in his life—divorce.
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| The remodeled reception room dazzled -- catalog of sale of Astor Mansion, (copyright expired) |
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| Above the mantel in the marble-walled and floored Dining Room hung the portrait of the original John Jacob Astor -- catalog of the sale of the Astor Mansion (copyright expired) |
A few months later, on March 18, 1910, The Norfolk Weekly
New-Journal brushed off the hoop-la. “The
John Jacob Astor divorce attracts little attention in the atmosphere of New
York’s smart set. Couples that live in
domestic peace and harmony are more of a news feature down there.”
Two weeks earlier renovations to the mansion had been
completed and on March 3 Astor gave a housewarming dinner “of almost two
hundred covers…in his newly constructed residence, 840 Fifth Avenue,” as
described by The New York Times. “There will be a
cotillion afterward, to which a hundred additional guests have been invited.” No longer in the shadow of either Caroline or
Ava Astor, John Jacob Astor opened his doors to over three hundred guests that
night; not only celebrating a new house, but a new life.
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| Off the reception room was the Entrance Hall with its massive fireplace and groin-arched ceiling -- catalog of the sale of the Astor Mansion (copyright expired) |
The installation necessitated another massive
entertainment. On February 6, 208 guests
were invited for dinner and another 300 arrived for dancing afterward. “The house itself is too handsome to need
extraneous ornamentation, and a few vases of cut flowers formed the only
decoration in the drawing and reception rooms and library,” said The New York Times. “Col. Astor had assisting him in receiving
his guests Mrs. Ogden Mills and his niece, Mrs. Theodore Douglas Robinson. They stood in the drawing room at the left of
the entrance, where the late Mrs. Astor was wont to receive.”
Astor had every reason to be pleased that the mansion was
now completed. There would soon be a new
Mrs. Astor with whom to share it. Jack Astor
had become enamored with Madeleine Talmage Force, the daughter of William
Hurlbut Force and Katherine Arvilla Talmage; and on September 8, 1911 The New
York Times suggested “There was an impression last night among the friends of
Col. John Jacob Astor that his marriage to Miss Madeleine T. Force would not be
delayed more than a few days.”
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| John Jacob Astor and his young bride, Madeleine Talmadge Force -- photos from the collection of the Library of Congress. |
By the time they started home Madeleine was pregnant. The couple boarded the new RMS Titanic in
Southampton, England on April 10, 1912.
Only one of them would return to 840 Fifth Avenue.
At midnight on April 14 the teen-aged Vincent Astor was awakened
with the news that the Titanic had gone down.
Two days later The Evening World reported, “William Vincent Astor was one
of the many visitors who hung about the White Star offices yesterday and
refused to depart with the meager assurances of the safety of all the
passengers that had been offered.
“The boy was still sitting in the great silent house this
morning when an official of the White Star line called up and notified him that
Mrs. John Jacob Astor and her maid had been saved,” the newspaper said.
“‘But what of father?’ shrieked the boy through the phone
and made no effort to choke back his sobs when the faltering reply came that no
word had been received of the fate of Col. Astor.”
John Jacob Astor, who had valiantly given up a seat in a
lifeboat, died on the ship. Madeleine was
home in the Fifth Avenue mansion within a few days. The Sun, on April 21, reported on the
condition of the pregnant widow. “The
nervous condition which caused her friends some alarm on Thursday night has
passed almost entirely away and Dr. Reuel B. Kimball, the Force family
physician, said that it had not been necessary to give Mrs. Astor a single drop
of medicine.”
Vincent Astor was visiting his mother on August 14, 1912
when Madeleine gave birth in the Astor mansion.
The New York Times said “The baby, who will be the sixth to bear the name of the
founder of the Astor fortune, and who comes into an estate of $3,000,000, is
said to be strong, well formed, and to bear a striking resemblance to his
father.”
Madeleine and her son lived on in the hulking Fifth Avenue
chateau. As the baby grew, his mother
found that his expenses were outweighing his income. On June 5, 1915, The Evening World reported “Three-year-old
John Jacob Astor, posthumous son of Col. John Jacob Astor, who lost his life on
the Titanic, is having a difficult time, his mother, Mrs. Madeleine Talmadge
Force Astor says, in getting along on the allowance of $20,000 a year which
Surrogate Cohalan instructed her to spend on him.” The boy’s annual allowance would amount to just
under half a million today.
But by the same time the following year, Madeleine and
little John Jacob Astor would be packing their bags. In June 1916 she married William K. Dick, a
friend since childhood and a millionaire in his own right. At 28 he was just four years older than
Madeleine. The Washington Times reported
on June 18, 1916 “By her marriage Mrs. Astor will relinquish possession of the
Astor mansion at the northeast corner of Fifth avenue and Sixty-fifth street,
as well as the income on $5,000,000 which Colonel Astor set aside for her in
his will, to be held as long as she should remain single. These will revert to William Vincent Astor,
Colonel Astor’s son by his first marriage to which the bulk of the $87,000,000
estate was left.”
Young Vincent Astor was now married to the former Helen
Dinsmore Huntington and the couple now were the sole residents of 840 Fifth
Avenue. The new Mrs. Astor was active in
social causes and entertainments in the mansion would be far different from
those hosted by Caroline Astor or her son.
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| Guests entered through what the American Art Association termed "superb bronze gates" catalog of the sale of the Astor Mansion (copyright expired |
On November 16, 1916 The Evening World opined “The first
dinner ever given by Mrs. Vincent Astor in the home at No. 840 Fifth Avenue,
which for several generations has housed the head of the house of Astor in
America, was not, in the narrow meaning of the phrase, a social function. Yet it had a wider social significance than
any entertainment ever given in the famous mansion.”
Helen invited 100 men and women “who work for the ideals of
the National Americanization Committee.”
The group “aims to teach new citizens the English language, to impress
upon them the value of American citizenship, loyalty to the flag, to make them
Americans in spirit as well as in fact, and to bring about friendlier relations
between employers and their employees.”
The newspaper was impressed with Helen’s active stance on
social causes. “Youngest of all the Astor
hostesses, Mrs. Vincent Astor has already shown herself to be a woman of
serious thought and purpose. She belongs
to the new order of society girl, whose conception of life is that of service.”
Helen’s socially-focused entertainments—which would have
been so alien to Caroline Schermerhorn Astor—included meetings of the League of
Foreign Born Citizens, a Herbert Hoover campaign meeting for women voters in May
1920; and, in February that year, a meeting of the Maternity Centre
Association. Governor Smith spoke at
that meeting which drew “a large and fashionable crowd,” according to The Sun
on February 26.
Less than 30 years after the bronze gates to the Astor mansion were
first thrown open, its impending demolition was announced. On April 13, 1924 The New York Times wrote “Vincent
Astor’s home at 840 Fifth Avenue is to be replaced by a twelve-story apartment
house. The announcement marks a period
in the history of Fifth Avenue. Here at
840 Vincent Astor’s grandmother, Mrs. William Astor, completed the decades of
rule over New York society which made her to the entire world simply Mrs. Astor—the
Mrs. Astor.”
“The house contains the Astor art collection, one of the
most famous private collections in the world, consisting of many noted
paintings, tapestries, bronzes, and works in marble,” said The New York Times a year
later as plans for its demolition were cemented. “In the main ball room, now devoted chiefly
to the art collection, there hangs a picture of the dowager Mrs. Astor. Mrs. Astor used to stand under this painting
and receive.”
The great house, once the “social centre of the city” as
described by The New York Times, was opened to the public on April 20 and 21, 1926 as the American Art
Association, Inc. auctioned off everything.
Not only were the bronzes, paintings, antique furniture, carpets and
tapestries sold; so too were Mrs. Astor’s silver and china and the very
architectural elements. Included in the
auction catalog were “carved wood wall paneling, painted insets and ceilings.”
In the place of the massive French chateau rose the Temple
Emanu-El designed by Robert D. Kohn.
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