|photo by Alice Lum
Young Grenville was taught old New England values. Overt display of affluence was unseemly and despite the Winthrop name and financial standing, the family lived reservedly. New York’s society paper, Town Topics, slighted the Winthrop residence as an “old-fashioned brick house…probably the plainest residence today on Fifth Avenue.”
Shy and strait-laced, Grenville, like the other Winthrops, went off to Harvard where he lived in an exclusive, private dormitory. He focused rather unexpectedly on geology and art history—areas which did not promise to provide a formidable career. After graduation he stayed on in Cambridge to study law and returned to New York, setting up a partnership with James B. Ludlow and Frederick Philips.
In 1892 the 28-year old married Mary Tallmadge Trevor. It was a June society wedding held at the Trevor country estate on the Hudson River. Winthrop purchased a handsome house at No. 12 East 37th Street in the fashionable Murray Hill neighborhood, near the homes of both mothers and other millionaires like J. Pierpont Morgan and Helen Louise Stokes. Within nine months little Emily Winthrop was born and in 1899 another daughter, Kate, came along.
In the meantime Winthrop’s law practice, in which he had little interest, had failed. He retired in 1896 leaving the management of his financial affairs to his brothers. Disinterested in social functions and uncomfortable in public settings, he immersed himself in the study of art. His marriage, at the same time, was suffering. Mary Winthrop was an unhappy wife and shortly after the birth of Kate, in the spring of 1900, she left the city for her family home upstate.
Grenville spent the summer with his brother Frederic in Massachusetts. When he returned at the end of the season, Mary remained at the Trevor estate in Yonkers. Then in December she suddenly died. Speculation pointed to suicide.
The traumatized father was terrified that his young daughters would fall victim to the same physiological and emotional problems as their mother. The two little girls found themselves now in the hands of a rigid, socially-retiring father who intended to keep tight, protective reins on them. He sought advice from professionals who counseled him to provide a balanced diet and to avoid overstimulation. In response he hired a vegetarian chef and in-house tutors. While other young girls of socially-prominent families were attending exclusive private girls’ schools, Kate and Emily were taught at home.
When he was not closely watching his daughters, Winthrop was collecting art. Because he disliked travel, he stayed in the sanctuary of his home and hired buyers to search out his artworks. Within the first few years of the 20th century he had amassed an amazingly wide-flung collection. By 1919 it had become obvious that his astounding collection had outgrown the Murray Hill mansion and was crowding out both the artwork and his daughters.
In 1902 Winthrop had commissioned architect Julius Gayler to design a sprawling mansion, Groton Place, in Lenox, Massachusetts, as his summer estate near that of his mother. Now he turned to the architect to design a mansion for his art.
The block along East 81st Street between Fifth and Madison Avenues had been developed between 1878 and 1884 with near carbon-copy brownstone rowhouses. As Manhattan’s millionaires crept up the Avenue around the turn of the century these were being razed or converted to lavish mansions. The Costello family lived in No. 15 East 18th Street and received the devastating news in 1918 that young Thomas Costello was killed in action in Europe.
The following year they sold their house to Winthrop, who purchased the houses at Nos. 17 and 19 as well. Construction began on the exceptionally-wide home for the collector’s art. Three years later, in 1921, the mansion was competed. Like its owner, the structure was formal and reserved. The red brick of the chaste neo-Federal façade was contrasted by the splayed white marble lintels and the handsome Ionic portico. The refined entrance with its paneled door included sidelights and a large leaded fanlight.
|Proud of his colonial pedigree, Winthrop added the family crest to the ironwork above the portico -- from the collection of the Museum of the City of New York
But Grenville Winthrop never intended to live in the expansive mansion. It was instead a private museum of his thousands of items. There were just two bedrooms, one for himself and a single guestroom. The other 36 rooms were reserved for the collection. Display cases ran down the center of hallways and room after room was filled with Winthrop’s eclectic compilation of art and artifacts: Pre-Raphaelite paintings, French drawings, clocks, Asian art, early Wedgwood and Mesoamerican masks.
|photo by Alice Lum
“Reared to serious cultural pursuits rather than to the lighter pleasures of young society women, both girls devoted themselves to music, and Miss Emily found a further outlet for her energies in devotion to sculpture.” Winthrop built her a marble studio in Lenox and her sculptures received favorable mention in a few New York exhibitions.
|Julius Gaylor used various-colored bricks, some charred, to give the impression of age and history -- photo by Alice Lum
Winthrop had given young Morse a job after school hours when he was still enrolled in the Lenox High School. The boy was learning to be an electrician and following his graduation Winthrop hired him full time to do various jobs around the estate, including maintaining the chicken and pigeon coops.
On September 6, 1924 Grenville Winthrop prepared to return to Lenox from an overnight trip to New York. He sent a wire to the chauffeur Miles instructing him to pick him up at the train station. When Winthrop got off the train, he was surprised to find a driver from a public garage waiting for him. The driver told him that Miles had “been called out of town and had asked him to take his place.”
When the millionaire collector arrived at Groton Place, he was met at the front door by Miss Holmes. The woman had been with the family for 20 years, first as the girls’ governess, then as their language teacher, and now as their private secretary. She had the uncomfortable task of informing Winthrop that both his daughters had eloped.
In his absence, the girls had run off with the electrician and the chauffeur. Emily, now 31-years old, had married Corey Lucien Miles and 24-year old Kate was now the bride of the electrician. For the strict, conservative Winthrop whose decorous life was dictated by social proprieties, it was nearly more than he could bear.
The newspapers plastered the news across the headlines. Page One of The New York Times read “Winthrop Sisters in Dual Elopement—Event Causes a Sensation in Social Circles—Father Reported Shocked and Grieved.” The article began, “Two daughters of one of the wealthiest and most exclusive families in Lenox, with an undisputed social position in New York as well, made a joint runaway marriage this morning that is one of the most startling of its kind society here has known in many years.”
A subsequent article reported that a physician was called to attend to the millionaire. “Mr. Winthrop is 65 years old and the shock he suffered was said to have been a severe one at first.”
|Emily Winthrop Miles with one of her sculptures in 1934. Both girls inherited about $3 million from their grandmother. photo NYPL Collection
Winthrop turned his back on his daughters and immersed himself in collecting. The museum-house, which he referred to as “No. 15” continued to fill with priceless artwork. One room was dedicated to painter-poet William Blake, containing over 50 of his works. His collection of ancient Chinese jades and bronzes has never been equaled. Because he never allowed any items to be taken on loan and because he was almost neurotically reclusive, it was one of the most important yet least known collections in the country.
The quiet and proper Grenville Lindall Winthrop died in 1943. His collection of over 4,000 objects was left to Harvard University. The now empty house on East 81st Street was sold in a cash deal for about $270,000.
The house was used as the scene of a party in the 1998 movie “The Object of My Affection”—the antithesis of anything that its original owner could have imagined (Edith Wharton said of him, after all, “He had nice tastes, certainly…but he seems to me to want digging out and airing.”). More recently owners Mr. and Mrs. Kotebar commissioned architectural firm Rothzeid, Kaiserman, Thomson & Bee, PC to restore the aging structure.